TINY COTTLE & TAMEKA RAYMOND get so much slack about thier looks. People question why TIP is with TINY, why Usher married Tameka. as far as Tiny goes I get tired of hearing "oh she put him on," oh she's bisexual, she financed his career, who gives a damn, why can't the man just love his boo, she seems like a real ride or die chick and after seeing the show and how she interacts with her family, she has my vote.
Tameka Raymond has been hated on since Usher chose her to be his wife, can you imagine being in her shoes everyday? people talking shit about how she looks, how many kids she had before Usher. Now the public divorce she has to go through, she is taking the high road, the right road, I'm sure she could say a whole lot about that ordeal, and I think that's why all these people like SANDRA ROSE are so pissed off, because she never lets them see her sweat, who is SANDRA ROSE, is that trick even married? what does she look like anyway? okay that wasn't nice, and I'm just trying to get a point across about two names I keep hearing about everyday in a negative way. People can easily say well who are you, well let me put it out there, I'm just a women who discovered at 38 okay 39 that writing is my passion.
I know people write about what they hear and report it, that's what I do, but I decided I don't want to hurt people just for the sake of them reading my blog. Can we just be easy on Mrs. Raymond and Tiny? do people ever think they have hearts that ache, kids to answer to about what when and why are people saying all these things. Then there are all the " I told you so" idiots. Remember Mrs. Raymond had him, and for all we realy know she still does! but if it didn't work out for whatever reason, let them figure it out. Marriage is one tough job, trust me I know, my husband isn't even a celebrity, he builds houses for a living and I'm still scratching my head.
Usher could have married anyone, but remember he married her, she is the mother of his sons, (stop hating) at one time I wanted to have his baby, I'm joking but you know where I'm going with that one. Tiny got TIP on her TIP so give her a break, she appears to be a good mother and business women, and she is holding it down for him while he is paying his debt to society, been there too, and it ain't easy, that bed seems so much bigger and colder when your in it alone.
If you get a chance read Tameka Raymond's (CLICK LINK) Damn, she almost died for the sake of beauty!!!
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/tameka-foster.../shes-pretty-for-a-dark-sk_b_256784.html
People are going to far with all this Hollywood bullshit, I never wanted or desired to famous, becasue in my mind I've been faboulous since I can remember but it took me 30+ years to realize it My life is a movie and Im just discovering what I love about myself and the other talents I ve been blessed with. I just want to be important and influential to my family and friends. Don't go over the edge because of the pressures of being thin, young, light skinned, dark skinned, good hair, etc. Try Loving who you are right now, and right now I'm sitting here with my belly just hanging over my jean shorts just a bit, but I'm working on it, but for me and at my own pace. Just for today try not to judge and try to accept people for who GOD made them to be.
I am truly blessed to have two beautiful daughters, one that sings like an angel, the other who makes me smile everytime I see her face, things could have turned out so different but GOD gave me healthy children, a wonderful family who loves me and admires me and that's the audience I worry about, all the rest of you can kick rocks, bare foot! As I matured, I realized beauty is skin deep and to all the ignorant or maybe I should say insecure people, remember beauty fades,words hurt, and dont use other peoples shortcomings for your own gain. KARMA IS REAL.
So what will your legacy be?
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