"The Playbook" Dating Guidelines for 21st Century

"The Playbook"

After hundreds of conversations talking about dating rules, dating etiquette and giving advice I  decided to share some of the rules from my personal playbook on getting the guy you want, and ultimately "getting the ring"

The dating game has changed so much these days, and the methods or lack their of have really left the scales unbalanced. Men seem to have the upper hand, and women seem to be doing just about anything and getting nothing in return. What happened to "The Rules" a silent set of guidelines passed down from generation to generation. I will post a few rules that worked for me, regardless if your trying to get married or  fall in love, or just have a successful date try to incorporate some of these tips and I guarantee you will see things changing and the pendulum swinging more your way, and the men thirsting for more.

1. Never answer the phone on the first ring.

2. when asked are you available, in the beginning always appear to be unavailable and busy, but let him now you will have to get back to him on that, and if you really want to go out with him, let it be on your terms, your time and location.

3. Always end the conversation first. to much chatting sends the wrong message

4. Always end the date first. Don't let the date drag over into the quiet zone because the date was to long.

5. Never drink alcohol on the first date this always leads to trouble, either you or he reveals to much to soon or someone gets drunk and drunk is a sign of a person who can not stay in control of them self.

6. Never discuss your ex relationships with your date, don't make comparisons

7. Never talk about prior relationships and how many sexual partners you may have had or not

8. Do not talk about SEX on the first couple dates, its inappropriate  and can be misleading and overall tacky

9 Stay away from office romances they always end up bad, and you will be the topic of conversation by the water cooler one day.

10.Remember if a man wants to see you again he will call, no man is that busy, if he doesn't call you back,accept that he may not be into you and then move on, their are more fish in the sea.