How do you know when its time to say goodbye?

The purpose of a relationship is to add substance to your life, a relationship should add to the quality of your life, it should not take away from your life and make you feel unhappy, obligated or lonely and if it does than maybe its time to say goodbye! Here a few tips on why you may have to say goodbye to your significant other

1.Your sad most of the time, even when he or she is around you don't feel good about yourself or the relationship.

2. You feel emotionally disconnected, if your partner is sleeping on the couch without you for more than a few nights: "Houston you have a problem"

3. You find yourself changing your values and beliefs to accommodate your partner in hopes of making them happy.

4. Your partner is physically or verbally abusive, they try to control you with violence and  put you down continuously, noting you do is good enough, in their opinion.

5. You don't trust your partner when he or she is not around. If you feel the minute your partner leaves you he or she is possibly talking, texting or spending time with another women.

6. If you just aren't happy with things, we are always looking for a reason to break-up ie, a fight, someone cheating, have enough confidence in yourself if you just are not happy with someone that is reason enough to leave.

7. You are not satisfied sexually anymore. There i'snt  much more to that, sex isn't everything but its very important.

These are just a few things I wanted to share with you guys I hope you find peace and happiness inside yourself first, and don't be afraid to be alone sometimes. Not being in a realtionship gives you time to figure out what you want and what you are not willing to give up and being alone sometimes can prepare you for the best relationship in your life.