Now I can only speak for myself here, but after my marriage ended I found what most might call a jump off a boy toy whatever you want to call him he was there and for awhile the lines were very noticeable. He lived in another state so I figured we could only go so far with this and although his mom who was around my age and who did not approve of me dating her 20 year old son. I didn't get to see him that often so the telephone came in very handy we went from late night phone sex to meeting in different cities for the weekend (at my expense) Yes he was 10 years my JR, his age was only an issue when we tried to do the 21 and over thing or when we got into arguments about me talking to other older men who were usually clients and most of our nights out ended in arguments followed by some good ass sex and for a minute there, I thought that shit was cute. I even begin to catch feelings for him, and I even started to think the broke shit was cute but then I got honest with myself and accepted the dick was amazing and this cougar was SPRUNG but needed to get herself together and fast.
I know a few women who have slept with younger men and some older men who put it on them and before they knew it dude was driving the car, getting a key to the crib and after the novelty wore off they realized they were sprung and they cant remember where all the time went. Before I was traumatized by some good sex I couldn't relate to all the stupid shit some of these women did to make sure they hooked up with their temporary love or in my case severe infatuation, The dick was so great I was going wait until he finished college and got his degree, then move him in with me and we would live happily ever after, but one day I got a serious wake up call while watching TV with him during the day the cable was shut off, this dudes first response was "how am I going to watch the playoffs" a few days later my locks were changed and my cable was on. I never watched the playoffs that year.
There's nothing wrong with having that kind of dude around that breaks you off but knows his place. Its usually the women trying to make more out of the situation anyway. This boy was not ready for my life to include my mortgage, car payments tuition's, HOA fees. I'm not taking anything from him, he was a good person but he wasn't ready for my shit mentally and I didn't have the patience for his.
So the answer is, YES good sex will keep you cumming back and back and back! but we as women just need to know when to let it go.
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